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9/8/09

Dear Friends:

Where to start: well this first part might be a bit boring to my readers.  Our office moved from one room to three rooms, quite a lot of effort put in by everyone–especially me who had never painted or wallpapered before, came in a couple of days to help out; there I was down on the floor helping measure/cut the wallpaper, painted (of course had more paint on me).  They hired someone to wallpaper (did one room), then they ran out of money, so we all pitched in, must say it looks really nice now, the Director has her own office, I sit in one of the larger rooms with two other people, have a desk and a computer that I can use–still no internet availability at the apt. where I live.  Don’t have a ‘real’ job, but do my best to help out, answer the phone (in my limited language skills), make coffee, wash a few dishes, help prepare lunch in the office, take out the trash, whatever needs doing–they are really a nice group, hope to eventually improve my language skills (will be a big plus re the work–plus everyone that comes in and out speak Romanian, I hear very little English spoken and I would like to be able to understand more) and now have a tutor and am continuing language training with her at the university nearby.

August 27th was Moldova’s Independence day; declared their independence from Russia in 1992.  As with so many Eastern European countries, Moldova has been sliced, diced and tossed from one owner to another in its long history of settlement.  That day we went to Soroca, a town north of here, and is the Roma (gypsy) ‘capital’ of Moldova.  The large Roma population, even in Soviet times, were renowned for living at a much higher standard than most Moldovans.  You can see a number of stately mansions that the richer Roma built for themselves on the hilltop facing the river and Ukraine on the other side of it.  The Director had an exhibition there and it was quite a fun day; went walking along the riverside w/one of the young guys from the office to the Soroca fortress where people are thrown back to medieval times.

Also that week went to a seminar re abused/battered women – one of the other volunteers who also lives in Balti gave the presentation and I went in early to help her greet people and guide them to the registration table & the room where they had coffee.  I hope to get more involved in these womens issues, battered/abused women and also trafficking in women.  I asked one of my friends at the HB Womens Club if they could send some stuff to the shelter and they are ready and willing – it’s so wonderful to have these sources to rely on and are interested in womens causes.

Otherwise, am coping w/my living accommodations in a small apt., lonely at times for sure, but great I can e-mail (and receive—thank everyone for writing me, I really appreciate it and love you all) occasionally at the office.  My daughter gave me her MAC before I left but no internet connection at the apt., but use it for ‘old’ movies and music (get music and books either from the PC office in Chisinau (PC hdqtrs and capital) or from the American Center (nearby the office).  I like the location of my office as it’s near the center and I can walk (a big marketplace) around usually after work and get an ice cream on the way home.  My host mother makes me only dinner now, she’s a pretty good cook, they make a lot of soups though; miss some good ole American food – maybe even at McDonald’s (you know you want what you can’t have).

Just a little note, it’s not funny and it’s not nice, but when I’m on the bus going home I always observe people and one thing is that they all (mostly) have gold fillings and I was watching a couple talking to each other and when they smiled there were there gold fillings – it makes me smile – the old women here are in bad shape, bent over and mostly have no teeth.  Have taken some interesting photos).

Must run, love to all, Marilyn

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Comments

  1. LAKE ELLSTROM says:

    I am so glad to hear a few more details of your life. Maybe I will try to find a map of Moldova and see where you live. I have found Chisinau on the map I haven’t looked for any others. I am sure you are a big help to the group and will be much more help as you learn to speak and understand better.
    I check your blog every few days but you haven’t added anything for awhile, so I thought,”I’ll give it one more try” and voila, you had a new blog for us.
    It is quite warm here as you remember Spetember is a hot month.
    Much love as always, Lake

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
  2. Mike Johnson says:

    Hi Marilyn,
    I just read your 9/8/09 blog entry and thank you for allowing us to follow your activities in this manner. I am still not clear on what city your new site is in.
    Back here on the home front we are going to be celebrating Kay’s birthday this weekend and will certainly work in a toast to you.
    Love, Mike Johnson

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
  3. Joan Engelhaupt says:

    Hi, Marilyn!

    So good to hear from you again! I’m so thrilled with the thought of you speaking Romanian, and of course you will, and fluently too, before all that long. Look forward to hearing from you again soon.

    Love,

    Joan

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
    • marilyn7475 says:

      Dear Joan:

      You are my most ardent fan – thank you so much for commenting on all my blogs. I started teaching English in the office recently – about 4-8 women–a couple are grasping it quite well, at times it’s a good laugh too (between each other). I have found several good sources on-line which I am using. I have told them that I AM NOT really an English teacher, but they are anxious to learn so it’s okay. In the meantime, am continuing w/my own language training at the University, which is close by. You know it’s not a hard language but the grammar is difficult – sometimes I feel I’m going backwards instead of foreword. Other than that the days go by quickly, am in the office for most of the day, except for my language lesson for an hour, then go home, have dinner w/my host family, stay in my room & read or watch an old movie or listen to music. It’s not the social life I had in HB (for sure) but that’s okay too. I will go into Chisinau (the capital) this Sat. for a seminar on TIP (trafficking in persons) at the PC office, which I want to get involved with. Yesterday I attended a seminar in Floreşc sponsored by the NGO I work for intended for people who are looking for employment or to start a new business. Also tomorrow I will participate in a seminar on Continuing Education at the Univ. (my tutor has started a program for future teachers).
      I must run – will post another blog probably next week. In the meantime keep up your great spirit and your wonderful self – I loved your e-mail re the remote area medical foundation and commenting that the U.S. is a third-world country when it comes to health care. It’s so true. Will have some comments on my blog next re teachers salaries here and other observations. We have a lot to be grateful for in the U.S. when I see the conditions here. Love, Marilyn

      | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
    • June Moberg says:

      Hi Marilyn,

      I have enjoyed reading about your experiences and I’m not sure I’d have guts enough to be in your shoes. I certainly admire you for your efforts. I haven’t been walking recently because it’s been too hot. Thursday is my day to wash and iron and if I don’t finish by i or 2 o’clock I roast. Eight of us went to Del Mar for the races and had a ball. We miss you and wish you were back with us. Take care of yourself!

      June

      | Reply Posted 2 years, 4 months ago
  4. Audrey Wilner says:

    Hi Marilyn — We hadn’t heard from you in so long, I thought you had forgotten about us.

    The walking group still goes on. This week Corky and Al have planned a field trip for us. First we will go walking in Franklin Canyon Park. Have you ever been there? After lunch we will visit the Annenberg Space for Photography — a gem of a museum in Century City.

    The foreign policy group is also continuing. We took a break last month to hear John Dean and George McGovern speak at the Redondo library. And Yvonne has started a foreign film and lunch group. The next film will be from India. Al and I will be traveling to India in November so I have been reading books on the country and fiction by Indian writers. Will you be doing any travel on your own to visit your many friends all over the world?

    Stay in touch.

    Audrey

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
    • marilyn7475 says:

      Hi Audrey: I definetly appreciate all your comments, will probably post another blog next week. November is creeping up fast and you’ll be going to India in no time. I admire you and Al for keeping busy with all your different interests and traveling. I, hopefully, plan to travel at the end of the year sometime or early next year (we can’t leave the country for six months, so by the end of the year it will be about 6 months) – trying to figure out my options–Cairo or Athens–& of course will stay w/friends. Have friends that were posted in Aug. in Villinuis, Lithiunia and will probably wait til spring to visit them and want to get back to Prague if possible. I just heard from friends (2 different ones) that I hadn’t heard from in maybe 4 years. One gal and a friend are going to Vietnam soon and thought that I was still there. Yvonne’s lunch group & foreign film showing sound very interesting. I don’t have the social life here that I did in HB (& elsewhere), but I’m coping – there’s one other volunteer in my city so I see occasionally. I will be going into the capital (Chisinau) on Sat. to attend a TIP conference (sponsored by PC) re TIP (trafficking in people), a topic I’m very interested in. I’ve also helped in a couple of seminars that my NGO has sponsored – also one sponsored by the Ukrainian Women’s Foundation, about women’s rights, it was very interesting. Must run, the girls in the office want to have an english lesson, which I’m also attempting to do. Love, Marilyn—regards to Al….

      | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
  5. Billie Lee says:

    Marilyn- So glad to get an update. I really empathize when it comes to learning a new language. I still remember my classes in Sai gon or early on in Switzerland. We have just started classes at Griffith and everything is very confusing because of the registration fees($30) and set class size. This is our first week! I”m looking forward to getting into a routine. Everyone at Griffith says hi and wishes you well. Really like getting your letters and knowing more about the culture. My Romainian student just dropped by today and gave me his business card. He is studying to be a plumber. Bye for now. Would love to see some pictures. Billie Lee

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 5 months ago
  6. Kathryn Egli says:

    Sister Marilyn,

    I did write a short note to you probably a month ago. I’m not sure
    that you got it. Things are going well here. Steve and I are traveling to
    the Panama Cannel in mid October. We fly to Miami stay 2 days their then
    board the Princess line and cruise back stopping at different places on the way.
    We are looking forward to a vacation.
    It sounds like you are teaching English, that is great, I’m sure you are a GREAT
    teacher. Do you miss shopping??????? I am sure that you are a positive influence in the lives of many people their. Remember regardless of conditions in the wold around you always try to be a blessing to others. Marilyn, I feel blessed just to know you.
    Take care of you, Sister Kathryn

    | Reply Posted 2 years, 4 months ago


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